I am what I am you should be too.
“ i’m not saying “everyone is basically bisexual.” i think that’s bullshit. some people are clearly not bisexual. some people are clearly gay or straight. and even though most people do have at least some capacity to be attracted to both/all genders, that still doesn’t make them “basically bisexual.” sexual identity is complicated — it’s about political identity, cultural identity, sexual history, romantic and relationship preferences, etc., as well as basic sexual attraction. and when people are deciding which identity (if any) works best for them, they get to decide for themselves which of these factors gets priority.